Second message online dating example


21-Feb-2020 14:09

After this opening and reading the very, very generic mail I seriously expected you to end on "...otherwise I would have been offended by his obvious, artificial smoothness and lack of thought." The only good thing about it was the spelling and grammar.OP: I am at the point where I don't think it even matters.The most common are the one liners that don't really say anything.And then there are the ones with spelling and grammatical errors.Well, I've only been here a few days so haven't received any yet where the sender hit it out of the ballpark, so to speak.But, based on my experience on another site, the things that help are: - if he mentions something specific from my profile (it shows he didn't just send a form email out to fifty different women), - a modestly self deprecating sense of humor, - writing more than one or two sentences, but not such a long message that I will have nothing left to learn about him if we do meet in person ;-)The best part of that email is that it could be cut and paste, and sent to anyone...

They copy and paste their entire profile (or something close) and want a reply.What did they do, and what ultimately became of it?Most of us have examples of lousy introductory e-mails.Then a short time later they will send almost the exact same thing again.

Believe it or not I have had this happen up to 3 or 4 times, same guy same thing written, with a few month time span inbetween. I CAN read and retain some basic information for like 2 minutes!

Obviously/hopefully you will know something about them from reading their profile, so it's much easier to start a convo than in person where you know nothing about a person.



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