Getting rejected online dating
Instead, you your interest by talking to her and expressing an interest in what she's saying. Asking a girl out is just like asking a friend to hang out. Also, try not to view girls as someone you would date. Welp, you're just screwed then, sorry man, enjoy being alone! I would just physically shake and would screw up my words and talk really fast and loud etc. I definitely get that fear, but think of how it would be on their end. Imagine a girl you aren’t interested in coming up to you and her telling you she thinks you’re cute and wants to get to know you better, even if you don’t find her attractive or anything you’d still be flattered right? Besides, to add another, I have to ask someone I know will never say yes. What can I say, I got busy doing something more important to me then finding love.
Then you ask her if she wants to go to [date spot] with you this weekend. I was really awkward and it took a long time for me to learn to be more casual and cool. I too had the craziest shakes in my knees because of nervousness and I had the hardest time trying to control it. So if the worst case scenario is flattering someone, and the best case is getting yourself a date, there’s no reason not to go for it! So, people outside my social class, people richer than I, people with more fashion sense, people who give off that “vibe” of attraction but being filled with a cesspool of a soul. On the one hand, everyone here saying you should just get over it is right. Anticipate it when you go out, and get the first 1-2 conversation over with.
Guys would become hostile when I told them I wasn’t interested in NSA sex, or guys that had started normal and nice quickly turned the conversation into something explicitly sexual in nature.
Seemingly nice dudes in quite esteemed careers asking to hook up in 24 hours and sending them naked pics of myself despite multiple times telling them that I didn’t want to.”As a male coach for smart, strong, successful women, I apologize on behalf of all men. But they really don’t get what it’s like to walk a mile in your shoes.
(Since you have anxiety I'll clarify that that second part is a joke, however there is a realistic chance you could be on the low end of testosterone production which would explain your passiveness)I get scared of women rejecting me in roundabout or humiliating ways.Or allowing her friends to drag her away so she doesn't actually have to say "no".